When people are ready to, they change. They never do it before then, and sometimes they die before they get around to it. You can’t make them change if they don’t want to, just like when they do want to, you can’t stop them.
Andy Warhol (via mela-h)
Oh how so many of us are fooled into believing the opposite but I’ve come to realize this very truth. You can encourage someone to want to change, you can set an example and be a support system, but you alone can never make them change. They have to want to and do it themselves.
(Source: atomos, via lleno-de-tierra)
